Cover of Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts by Karen Kleiman
Postnatal Mental Health

Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts

by Karen Kleiman · 2019

Validating book about intrusive thoughts in new motherhood.

Best for: New mothers experiencing intrusive thoughts and the shame that goes with them.

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Why we recommend it

Intrusive thoughts in new motherhood — sudden, unwanted images of harm coming to your baby — are remarkably common and remarkably under-discussed. Many mothers experiencing them believe they are uniquely broken, and the shame keeps them silent.

Karen Kleiman has specialised in perinatal mental health for decades. This book de-shames the experience clearly: intrusive thoughts are a known feature of postnatal anxiety, they don't predict harmful behaviour, and they often improve quickly with the right support.

Sushama works often with women in the postnatal period, and this is the book she most often hands to new mothers who are too frightened by their own thoughts to say them out loud.

A note. This is reading material, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, books complement therapy — they don’t replace it. Book a session with our team for personalised support.

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