Reading list

Books we mention with our clients

A working list of the books our psychologists, counsellor, and play therapist most often suggest to clients between sessions — organised by what you might be working on. Most are widely available; we link to Amazon AU for convenience.

These are reading recommendations, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, please consider booking with one of our clinicians — books complement therapy, they don’t replace it.

A note on links. Some links on this page are affiliate links to Amazon Australia and other booksellers. If you buy through them, we may earn a small commission at no extra cost to you. We only include books that align with evidence-based practice and that members of our team have actually read — commission does not influence which titles we list.

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Trauma, EMDR & PTSD

For adults working through long-standing trauma, complex PTSD, or the body-based aftermath of frightening experiences. These are books our team often mentions in sessions.

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The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

The single most-recommended book on trauma in modern psychology. Explains why trauma lives in the body and what therapies (including EMDR) can do about it.

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The Myth of Normal

Gabor Maté

Gabor Maté on how Western culture itself shapes trauma, addiction, and chronic illness — and what individual healing can look like inside that.

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Getting Past Your Past

Francine Shapiro

Written by EMDR's founder for general readers. A practical self-help framing of the same model our psychologists use clinically.

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What My Bones Know

Stephanie Foo

A journalist's memoir of being diagnosed with complex PTSD and navigating EMDR, IFS, and somatic therapy. Vivid, accessible, validating.

ADHD & Neurodiversity

For adults newly diagnosed (or wondering), parents of neurodivergent kids, and anyone trying to make sense of an ADHD or autistic brain — including the late-diagnosed-women experience.

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Driven to Distraction (Revised)

Edward Hallowell & John Ratey

The classic ADHD primer — still the clearest single explanation of ADHD across the lifespan.

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Taking Charge of ADHD

Russell Barkley

For parents. Russell Barkley is the most-cited ADHD researcher; this is his parent-facing guide.

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Unmasking Autism

Devon Price

The late-diagnosed-autism experience, particularly common in women and adults whose masking finally cracks in midlife.

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A Radical Guide for Women with ADHD

Sari Solden & Michelle Frank

Workbook-style guide for the women-with-ADHD experience our clinical psychologist sees frequently.

Anxiety, Panic & OCD

For readers working with anxiety, panic attacks, OCD, or the kind of relentless rumination that doesn't stop on its own.

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When Panic Attacks

David D. Burns

David Burns on CBT for anxiety and panic, written for general readers. Practical exercises that match what we do clinically.

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The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook

Edmund Bourne

The most widely-used anxiety workbook in CBT-informed therapy. Often given as homework alongside sessions.

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Brain Lock

Jeffrey M. Schwartz

Self-directed approach to OCD using the four-step model — useful adjunct alongside formal ERP therapy.

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The Happiness Trap

Russ Harris

Australian author's introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) for anxiety, depression, and stuck thinking.

Mindfulness, Meditation & Yoga

For readers wanting to build a mindfulness practice or understand the science behind why mind-body approaches help with anxiety, depression, and stress.

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Full Catastrophe Living

Jon Kabat-Zinn

The foundational MBSR (Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction) text. The book that introduced mindfulness into evidence-based mental health care.

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Radical Acceptance

Tara Brach

Buddhist psychology and compassion-focused practice for self-criticism, shame, and emotional pain.

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Wherever You Go, There You Are

Jon Kabat-Zinn

Shorter, accessible introduction to mindfulness — ideal first read before a Calm or Headspace subscription.

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Why We Sleep

Matthew Walker

Not strictly mindfulness, but the single best book on sleep — and sleep is the foundation of everything else.

Parenting & Child Psychology

For parents of children of all ages — including parents of neurodivergent kids, kids who have experienced something hard, and parents trying to break the cycle of how they themselves were raised.

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The Whole-Brain Child

Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson

The most-recommended parenting book in evidence-based child psychology. Twelve strategies for raising emotionally-regulated kids.

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No-Drama Discipline

Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson

Companion to Whole-Brain Child. How to discipline without breaking connection with your child.

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Raising Your Spirited Child

Mary Sheedy Kurcinka

For parents of intense, sensitive, persistent, or otherwise spirited kids — often (but not always) overlapping with neurodivergent presentations.

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How to Talk So Little Kids Will Listen

Joanna Faber & Julie King

Practical communication skills for ages 2–7. Bhavini's parent-consultation work draws on similar techniques.

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Every Parent's Guide to ADHD

Russell Barkley

For parents specifically navigating an ADHD diagnosis — by the field's most-cited researcher.

Relationships & Couples

For couples (married or not), people in difficult relationships, and anyone working through attachment patterns inherited from earlier experiences.

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

John M. Gottman & Nan Silver

Gottman is the most-researched couples-therapy framework in the field. This is the general-reader version.

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Hold Me Tight

Sue Johnson

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, by the modality's founder. Particularly useful for couples in disconnection cycles.

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Attached

Amir Levine & Rachel Heller

Adult attachment theory made accessible — explains why some relationship patterns repeat and what to do about it.

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Nonviolent Communication

Marshall B. Rosenberg

Communication framework that's useful for couples, parents, and workplace dynamics.

Self-Care, Stress & Burnout

For readers managing chronic stress, burnout, or trying to rebuild a sustainable relationship with work, rest, and themselves.

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Burnout

Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski

The science of burnout — particularly the experience of women navigating chronic over-functioning.

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Set Boundaries, Find Peace

Nedra Glover Tawwab

Practical, therapy-informed guide to boundary-setting in relationships, family, and work.

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Atomic Habits

James Clear

The clearest single book on habit change — useful for clients building sleep, exercise, or mindfulness habits between sessions.

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Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Lori Gottlieb

A psychotherapist's memoir about being both therapist and patient. Often what de-stigmatises therapy for first-time clients.

Postnatal Mental Health & New Motherhood

For new mothers navigating postnatal depression, anxiety, identity shifts, or just the ordinary intensity of early parenthood. Sushama works particularly often in this area.

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The Pregnancy and Postpartum Anxiety Workbook

Pamela S. Wiegartz & Kevin L. Gyoerkoe

CBT-based workbook for perinatal anxiety. Often given alongside sessions during the perinatal period.

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Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts

Karen Kleiman

Validating, often-quoted book about intrusive thoughts in new motherhood — a common but rarely-spoken-about experience.

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The Fourth Trimester

Kimberly Ann Johnson

Whole-system view of postnatal recovery — physical, emotional, identity-level. Often what new mothers wish someone had given them.

Working through something a book alone won’t solve?

Our team sees adults, adolescents, and children in person at Bella Vista and via telehealth across NSW. Medicare rebates available with a GP Mental Health Care Plan; NDIS self- and plan-managed; private health rebates depending on fund.