A working list of the books our psychologists, counsellor, and play therapist most often suggest to clients between sessions — organised by what you might be working on. Most are widely available; we link to Amazon AU for convenience.
These are reading recommendations, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, please consider booking with one of our clinicians — books complement therapy, they don’t replace it.
For adults working through long-standing trauma, complex PTSD, or the body-based aftermath of frightening experiences. These are books our team often mentions in sessions.
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Bessel van der Kolk
The single most-recommended book on trauma in modern psychology. Explains why trauma lives in the body and what therapies (including EMDR) can do about it.
Gabor Maté
Gabor Maté on how Western culture itself shapes trauma, addiction, and chronic illness — and what individual healing can look like inside that.
Francine Shapiro
Written by EMDR's founder for general readers. A practical self-help framing of the same model our psychologists use clinically.
Stephanie Foo
A journalist's memoir of being diagnosed with complex PTSD and navigating EMDR, IFS, and somatic therapy. Vivid, accessible, validating.
For adults newly diagnosed (or wondering), parents of neurodivergent kids, and anyone trying to make sense of an ADHD or autistic brain — including the late-diagnosed-women experience.
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Edward Hallowell & John Ratey
The classic ADHD primer — still the clearest single explanation of ADHD across the lifespan.
Russell Barkley
For parents. Russell Barkley is the most-cited ADHD researcher; this is his parent-facing guide.
Devon Price
The late-diagnosed-autism experience, particularly common in women and adults whose masking finally cracks in midlife.
Sari Solden & Michelle Frank
Workbook-style guide for the women-with-ADHD experience our clinical psychologist sees frequently.
For readers working with anxiety, panic attacks, OCD, or the kind of relentless rumination that doesn't stop on its own.
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David D. Burns
David Burns on CBT for anxiety and panic, written for general readers. Practical exercises that match what we do clinically.
Edmund Bourne
The most widely-used anxiety workbook in CBT-informed therapy. Often given as homework alongside sessions.
Jeffrey M. Schwartz
Self-directed approach to OCD using the four-step model — useful adjunct alongside formal ERP therapy.
Russ Harris
Australian author's introduction to ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) for anxiety, depression, and stuck thinking.
For readers wanting to build a mindfulness practice or understand the science behind why mind-body approaches help with anxiety, depression, and stress.
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Jon Kabat-Zinn
The foundational MBSR (Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction) text. The book that introduced mindfulness into evidence-based mental health care.
Tara Brach
Buddhist psychology and compassion-focused practice for self-criticism, shame, and emotional pain.
Jon Kabat-Zinn
Shorter, accessible introduction to mindfulness — ideal first read before a Calm or Headspace subscription.
Matthew Walker
Not strictly mindfulness, but the single best book on sleep — and sleep is the foundation of everything else.
For parents of children of all ages — including parents of neurodivergent kids, kids who have experienced something hard, and parents trying to break the cycle of how they themselves were raised.
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Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
The most-recommended parenting book in evidence-based child psychology. Twelve strategies for raising emotionally-regulated kids.
Daniel J. Siegel & Tina Payne Bryson
Companion to Whole-Brain Child. How to discipline without breaking connection with your child.
Mary Sheedy Kurcinka
For parents of intense, sensitive, persistent, or otherwise spirited kids — often (but not always) overlapping with neurodivergent presentations.
Joanna Faber & Julie King
Practical communication skills for ages 2–7. Bhavini's parent-consultation work draws on similar techniques.
Russell Barkley
For parents specifically navigating an ADHD diagnosis — by the field's most-cited researcher.
For couples (married or not), people in difficult relationships, and anyone working through attachment patterns inherited from earlier experiences.
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John M. Gottman & Nan Silver
Gottman is the most-researched couples-therapy framework in the field. This is the general-reader version.
Sue Johnson
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples, by the modality's founder. Particularly useful for couples in disconnection cycles.
Amir Levine & Rachel Heller
Adult attachment theory made accessible — explains why some relationship patterns repeat and what to do about it.
Marshall B. Rosenberg
Communication framework that's useful for couples, parents, and workplace dynamics.
For readers managing chronic stress, burnout, or trying to rebuild a sustainable relationship with work, rest, and themselves.
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Emily Nagoski & Amelia Nagoski
The science of burnout — particularly the experience of women navigating chronic over-functioning.
Nedra Glover Tawwab
Practical, therapy-informed guide to boundary-setting in relationships, family, and work.
James Clear
The clearest single book on habit change — useful for clients building sleep, exercise, or mindfulness habits between sessions.
Lori Gottlieb
A psychotherapist's memoir about being both therapist and patient. Often what de-stigmatises therapy for first-time clients.
For new mothers navigating postnatal depression, anxiety, identity shifts, or just the ordinary intensity of early parenthood. Sushama works particularly often in this area.
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Pamela S. Wiegartz & Kevin L. Gyoerkoe
CBT-based workbook for perinatal anxiety. Often given alongside sessions during the perinatal period.
Karen Kleiman
Validating, often-quoted book about intrusive thoughts in new motherhood — a common but rarely-spoken-about experience.
Kimberly Ann Johnson
Whole-system view of postnatal recovery — physical, emotional, identity-level. Often what new mothers wish someone had given them.
Our team sees adults, adolescents, and children in person at Bella Vista and via telehealth across NSW. Medicare rebates available with a GP Mental Health Care Plan; NDIS self- and plan-managed; private health rebates depending on fund.