by Russell Barkley · 2020
The evidence-based parenting benchmark, by the field's leading researcher.
Best for: Parents of a recently-diagnosed child, or any parent navigating school, behaviour, and family stress around ADHD.
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If you're going to read one book about parenting a child with ADHD, this is the one. Barkley has spent his career studying childhood ADHD, and the fourth edition reflects forty years of accumulated research and clinical experience.
He's particularly good on the bits other books skip: how to advocate at school, how to negotiate with educators who don't understand ADHD, what family-stress patterns look like and how to interrupt them, and when medication is genuinely worth considering. He doesn't soft-pedal — ADHD is hard on families — but he gives parents a framework rather than just sympathy.
This is the book Bhavini and our psychologists most often recommend to parents of ADHD kids who want to understand the condition properly, not just manage it.
A note. This is reading material, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, books complement therapy — they don’t replace it. Book a session with our team for personalised support.
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