by John Gottman & Joan DeClaire · 2001
Gottman's model of bids for connection — applicable to couples, families, and workplace relationships.
Best for: Clients wanting to improve connection across all their relationships, not just with a romantic partner.
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Gottman's model of bids for connection — applicable to couples, families, and workplace relationships.
Gottman's guide centres the small 'bids' for connection that make or break relationships. Practical for couples and families wanting to reconnect in everyday moments.
Best for: Clients wanting to improve connection across all their relationships, not just with a romantic partner.
A note. This is reading material, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, books complement therapy — they don’t replace it. Book a session with our team for personalised support.
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