by Kristin Neff · 2011
The foundational self-compassion text — teaches the antidote to self-critical burnout with solid research backing.
Best for: Clients driven by self-criticism and perfectionism who need to learn how to treat themselves with the same kindness they would offer a friend.
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The foundational self-compassion text — teaches the antidote to self-critical burnout with solid research backing.
Neff, who pioneered the research, makes the case for treating yourself as you would a good friend. A cornerstone read for clients with a punishing inner critic.
Best for: Clients driven by self-criticism and perfectionism who need to learn how to treat themselves with the same kindness they would offer a friend.
A note. This is reading material, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, books complement therapy — they don’t replace it. Book a session with our team for personalised support.
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