Book The State of Affairs
Cover of The State of Affairs by Esther Perel
Relationships & Couples

The State of Affairs

by Esther Perel · 2017

Perel's research-informed exploration of infidelity and what affairs reveal about relationships.

Best for: Clients and clinicians navigating betrayal who need a nuanced, non-judgmental framework for understanding affairs.

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Why we recommend it

Perel's research-informed exploration of infidelity and what affairs reveal about relationships.

Perel offers a nuanced look at infidelity and the many meanings it can hold. A reflective read for couples working through the aftermath of an affair.

Best for: Clients and clinicians navigating betrayal who need a nuanced, non-judgmental framework for understanding affairs.

A note. This is reading material, not clinical treatment. If you’re working through something difficult, books complement therapy — they don’t replace it. Book a session with our team for personalised support.

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